I am absolutely flabbergasted at my friend’s response to a party invitation.
I learned that there will be a visible full lunar eclipse or “blood moon” this week, so I invited my friend Jenny over to watch it with me at my house and perhaps have a bit of dessert as well. She agreed to this and said she would bring a cake. Later that evening she messaged me and asked if it was girl’s only, and I replied that it was not, thinking she would bring her partner along.
I created a Facebook event so I would remind myself of the details and I invited 2 other friends. Unfortunately I didn’t save the settings properly and Jenny invited another 10 people! Including someone that I didn’t even know. I only found out because my partner happened to see it on Facebook and told me. I quickly changed the event to private and invite only, deleted the other invites before anyone saw them and messaged Jenny. I explained that I couldn’t accommodate that many people at my small house. She replied with “just sharing the love!” I couldn’t believe that she would invite other people to someone else’s house! I have since cancelled the event and told her I got an extra shift at work. I am quite good friends with her partner but now I really want to cut her loose! I would like to remain friends with her partner as well, but this seems impossible given her self entitled behaviour. 1007-14
Yes, well, Jenny can “share” the love on her own time and her own place. It was rude of her to assume your “love” was free for the giving to all her friends.