This is one of those tough situations where the person who has the reasonable view and actually put the work into making a treat for everyone looks like the nag or sourpuss because someone else is "just having fun." I hate these situations!
Exactly! Also for the others who commented on DH laughing as well, I wasn't overly impressed with him for that either. By doing so, I feel like he just reinforced the statement above. His brother is just a mischievous little scamp (he's 42 BTW) and by taking offense, I come across as the wicked witch.
I agree on the tough situation. Oopsie, did you say anything to your DH afterwards? He's the one who had the power to point out the lack of humor in this. It's so disrespectful of your time!
One of my pet peeves is people who think they're funny when they're just boorish.