« Last post by POF on Yesterday at 09:42:50 PM »
Your host was rude. It's up to the hostess to outline what the dress code is going to be particularly if she plans on treating people like outcasts if they don't adhere to it.
It's a shame that while your hostess knows how to dress and can locate all the best bible verses, she doesn't know how to be welcoming to the stranger. Pity.
You did nothing wrong. She was rude.
Thank you for stating so well what I was thinking.