First of all, I apologize (again) if the gallows humor that I engaged in has offended you Lisbeth, since you started the thread. That is why I moved to PM. I do think mentioning the passing of ehellions is a good idea. If memorial threads are desired, I totally support that too.
I feel a great deal of personal sadness on the recent passing of one ehellion in particular.
I would find it very inappropriate to post jokes and/ or gallows humor in her memorial thread.
This, however, is not a memorial thread for any particular poster, is it? I understood it as you asking for people's opinion of your idea, which I believe could be a good one for some members.
Frankly, I don't understand why all this correction and chiding of individual posters, myself included, is appropriate. And who exactly is the arbiter of appropriateness?