I double-checked what I messaged him upon noticing the time change. It said "aye- see you at 4". I thought I had said "I am here"- but I double-checked, and I just said "aye- see you at 4".
Had I been more interested, I would have given him another chance. I was the one who picked the location, since it was in between to both our living places. It is easy to find- right off the interstate- and not confusing at all. He was aware that the location was centric and about the same driving distance to both of us- though I never told him where exactly I was coming from, since my city is quite large.
We both had pictures of each other- though I did not tell him what I was going to be wearing. I did think "what if I had gone to the bathroom while he was waiting?".
I will certainly get the person's phone number next time. I have had dates gone well without phone number exchange. In fact, I dated someone for a month (plus two months of friendship beforehand)- and our communication outside our dates was strictly through MySpace- not even email or IM. I had raised my eyebrow at this but since I do not particularly like talking on the phone, it was not a dealbreaker. But from now on, I will make sure I get his.