My own mother makes me feel bad for being single. In fact, just now I am preparing for a dose of this on Sunday. I have invited her along with several of my friends to lunch, and one of the friends going is a single guy. Very nice man, but I am not interested in him, and vice versa. I just know that after the lunch is over, my mother will start in on me about this guy. What a nice guy he is, why don't the two of us get together, get married, blah, blah, blah. I can find my blood pressure rising right now just thinking about it. My mother has been after my brother and I for the longest time to get married and have kids. She just can't understand that this might never happen for either or both of us. I also have friends who are in their 40's and above who are not married. My mother questions me as to why they have never married. She thinks this is weird. If she starts in on me Sunday, I am either going to lose it and scream my head off at her, or I am going to start crying, because I have just had it with my own mother thinking I am a reject for not marrying yet.