I've still not decided what to do about the this. If I do the Russell Stover box I will include the scratch lottery ticket (which leaves the decision of which box to give from among the $10 size ones) and if the candle I will include the tote bag. I have a plastic cookie pail container for the latter since I couldn't find a box that was the right size.
Since I posted this the hostess of this party posted a second party for a different group. That will take place four days later in a bar. I will post it as its own thread because it has other issues.