I am hoping that this year, my dad will get my room at their house cleaned out enough for me to sleep in my bed. I mean, he's always managed in the past, but I understand the hoarding has been getting worse and/or the cleaning has been getting less frequent, so it's pretty bad right now. I grew up in a two-bedroom house and once I moved out, my dad took over my room to put his junk in, even though it is still acknowledged to be MY room with a lot of my stuff in it. All I ask is that when I come to their house to spend the night, I can sleep in my own bed. This only happens about three times a year now--Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. It might be more if the room didn't look so horrible. Once I asked my dad if he'd cleaned out my room yet and he was like, "Not yet. You can always sleep on the sofa bed." No. I have a bedroom, I have a bed. I will be sleeping on that bed until I am outright told the room has been repurposed and the bed removed! Or I will go back to my apartment and sleep in my bed there
. I am just hoping this hill never actually arrives, because it would be really horrible to insist upon leaving on a holiday, but I hope it would force him to see that he is choosing his junk over me, should this happen.