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Re: Comments About Weight from Passerby
« Reply #105 on: January 16, 2013, 04:10:09 PM »
I am a plus size woman. As a result, random strangers will sometimes feel the need to insult me in some way- usually, when I am simply walking past them, minding my own business.

Generally, my response is to ignore them. My self-esteem will sometimes vacillate (doesn't everyone's?), but generally, I feel pretty good about myself- that's why I find these encounters more offensive in principle, than anything else. Really, who behaves this way?! It makes it difficult to know how to respond. I'd really like to dish out a line that is polite but also puts them in their place, but will settle for silence, if need be.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions?
"How kind of you to take an interest."
"Excuse me?"
"Better big than boorish."

Would any of those work?
The best way out is always through. -- Frost