Years and years ago when I was in college, in order to get to campus, I had to walk up the street that was bordered on both sides by dorms. The dorms were multilevel. As I was walking on my side of the street, past the neighborhing guy's dorm, I heard someone yell out the window "LOSE WEIGHT!" I was not particularly overweight at the time but I was offended to be shouted at like that. I could pretty much pinpoint where the yelling was coming from and these particular guys were jerks anyway. I continued up the street and they start oinking like a pig really loudly. I just happened to glance across the street at that moment, hoping that no one heard this stupidity, when I saw who they were harrassing. There was a local young lady who worked in the dining hall for the dorms in that pod. She was very large, yes, morbidly obese. More importantly, she was a human being and such a kind and pleasant one at that. Sometimes I would go for breakfast and she would be working the line with always a nice greeting for everyone.
I felt so bad for her. Here she was, walking to home or the parking lot, minding her own business and she gets yelled at. There was no place for her to duck into, so she just had to take it. In front of everyone nearby. I can still see her, thirty years later, just walking on, trying to ignore this yelling, coming from people who were supposedly mature adults.
I hope that they finally grew up. More importantly, I hope that she forgot about it.