The end of the road for me was when I realized that the only interest I was getting was from married guys looking for a mistress OR divorced guys wanting me to raise their children.
I refer to myself as the 'unhappily married man magnet" I seem to ONLY attract those who are married, but not happy and perhaps looking for some scrabble or something on the side. Um no. not happening.
I'm 47, have two jobs and very little free time. Most of the time, I'm happy. I joked at my recent 25th college reunion I'd love to get married if I didn't have to LIVE with my husband. And I was half serious! I'm so used to just me and set in my ways, it would be tough, but if mr. right comes along, fabulous, if not, so be it.