Rude to not immediately disclose new BF? [Updates 16,34]

[squashedfrog]

He has not mentioned my boyfriend by name.  It's ridiculous.  He accuses the "Bad Actor" of being passive-aggressive, yet goes on to post a diatribe about specific people and specific situations that he won't name.  It is still not clear where I wronged him, but apparently he now sees through the "Bad Actor's" facade.

I am positive it is about me.  The details (or, at least, his interpretation of the details) match up too closely.

Its really time for you BF to say something out loud.  This sucks.

BTW, I find it interesting that he is finding the most passive-agressive way imaginable to accuse someone-else of being passive-agressive.

[Cz. Burrito]

Its really time for you BF to say something out loud.  This sucks.

BTW, I find it interesting that he is finding the most passive-agressive way imaginable to accuse someone-else of being passive-agressive.

I spoke with a friend about this, and one particular part of the diatribe was something like "it is particularly telling that the Bad Actor has not been in contact with me."  Right...after he cut off contact with me and started disparaging me to my boyfriend to try to break us up...how exactly was that conversation supposed to go?  My friend said "I believe the accepted standard is to make up things about him without giving his actual name, and then post it in a blog entry where everyone else can see."

[Mental Magpie]

Its really time for you BF to say something out loud.  This sucks.

BTW, I find it interesting that he is finding the most passive-agressive way imaginable to accuse someone-else of being passive-agressive.

I spoke with a friend about this, and one particular part of the diatribe was something like "it is particularly telling that the Bad Actor has not been in contact with me."  Right...after he cut off contact with me and started disparaging me to my boyfriend to try to break us up...how exactly was that conversation supposed to go?  My friend said "I believe the accepted standard is to make up things about him without giving his actual name, and then post it in a blog entry where everyone else can see."

...and where everyone else knows exactly what he's talking about...it definitely sounds like you're not losing out on much.

[JenJay]

Woah! I'm sorry that something that started out kind of amusing in a raised eyebrow "O Rly?!" sort of way has taken such a sharp turn into crazy-town. At least he's made it easier for DBF to sever things.