He has not mentioned my boyfriend by name. It's ridiculous. He accuses the "Bad Actor" of being passive-aggressive, yet goes on to post a diatribe about specific people and specific situations that he won't name. It is still not clear where I wronged him, but apparently he now sees through the "Bad Actor's" facade.
I am positive it is about me. The details (or, at least, his interpretation of the details) match up too closely.
Its really time for you BF to say something out loud. This sucks.
BTW, I find it interesting that he is finding the most passive-agressive way imaginable to accuse someone-else of being passive-agressive.