The guy I have been in a relationship
since April of this year has an ex-girlfriend who has cerebral palsy. They dated years ago. Neither one of them live remotely near each other. When they broke up, the ex-girlfriend wanted to be friends. So my boyfirned gave his ex his phone number.
This is what has been happening since I started going over to his place in April...
My boyfriend would tell his ex-girlfriend that he was having company over on a Friday & a Saturday, hinting that he could not talk to her.
She would leave several messages on his answering machine such as.
- "Hi *ex-boyfriend* this is *ex-girlfriend*. I just want you to know that I love you."
"Hi *ex-boyfriend* this is *ex-girlfriend*. I just want you to know that I love you and that you are a sweetheart."
"Hi *ex-boyfriend* this is *ex-girlfriend*. I just want you to know that I love you. You are the best. You are awesome."
She has also called my boyfriend while I was at his place, knowing that he had company at that time. She would call Friday night as well as on Saturday.
The last time I was there, which was last Friday, she left a message on his answering machine. She also called him the following day, Saturday, & left another message like the ones above...this time using the word baby.
How do you politely deal with her while getting the message across that it is not appropriate to do this? He does not want to be rude or abrupt to her.