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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7200 on: February 26, 2013, 04:37:09 AM »
This hurt not so much my brain, but my heart and stomach and other things that clench when confronted with severe egotism.

My train this morning stopped on the tracks before a station and the conductor informed us that we would be delayed because the train in front of us had to call an ambulance for a passenger.

A _lot_ of people on my train kind of lost it and ranted and raved how this was unbelievable and rude and that the whole train system basically sucked.

Alright, the train had already been delayed because of technical issues. But... a fellow human being is in such a bad shape that they need an ambulance! And the worst thing to happen to all those complaining is that they may get to work a few minutes later than planned!

One young man in particular used very choice words to let everyone in earshot know how absolutely outrageous it was that he would be late. I really, REALLY had to pull myself together not to go off at him and have him know that he should be grateful he's healthy and warm and not the poor person in the train in front of us. I would not have been able to find polite words.

Sometimes I could really lose faith in humanity :(
Even more so because, in the end, we didn't have to wait longer than five, maybe ten minutes.
I really hope the person they called the ambulance for is ok.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7201 on: February 26, 2013, 04:40:30 AM »
This hurt not so much my brain, but my heart and stomach and other things that clench when confronted with severe egotism.

My train this morning stopped on the tracks before a station and the conductor informed us that we would be delayed because the train in front of us had to call an ambulance for a passenger.
A _lot_ of people on my train kind of lost it and ranted and raved how this was unbelievable and rude and that the whole train system basically sucked.
Alright, the train had already been delayed because of technical issues. But... a fellow human being is in such a bad shape that they need an ambulance! And the worst thing to happen to all those complaining is that they may get to work a few minutes later than planned!

One young man in particular used very choice words to let everyone in earshot know how absolutely outrageous it was that he would be late. I really, REALLY had to pull myself together not to go off at him and have him know that he should be grateful he's healthy and warm and not the poor person in the train in front of us. I would not have been able to find polite words.

Sometimes I could really lose faith in humanity :(
Even more so because, in the end, we didn't have to wait longer than five, maybe ten minutes.
I really hope the person they called the ambulance for is ok.

Not in Melbourne are you?
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7202 on: February 26, 2013, 04:42:29 AM »
Not in Melbourne are you?

I'm afraid not, I could really use the warmth :)

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7203 on: February 26, 2013, 05:18:39 AM »
Oh my!  If I had a dime for every time I was told I was not a Christian because I was Catholic, I could probably have bought and sold the Vatican.  As a child, it didn't bother me much because when you are five those things don't make sense, but as a teen and an adult, I was first scared and then highly annoyed.

A dear friend/coworker who was an evangelical Christian once made the statement about Catholics celebrating masses in which they sacrificed children on the altar.  By then I was just plain mouth and didn't put up with this stuff and I said to her "Heck, when is THAT holiday?  There's a whole bunch of kids here I'd like to see sacrificed!"

After that she started questioning me about Catholicism and every other statement was "Well, we do that.  We do that, too.  Oh, we do that."  I don't know for certain, but I still hope that my fellow Catholic coworkers and I changed her mind about whether Catholics are also Christians.

Unfortunately, for most of the past two thousand years "Christendom's" default position has been, "Type A of Christians (us) are the only true Christians; types X, Y and Z only think, mistakenly, that they're Christians, and they'll go to hell." Widespread mutual acceptance between different varieties of Christian, is a rather recent phenomenon.

I gather that a scene on which all this was especially rampant -- with a huge number of different varieties of the Christian faith -- was the Byzantine Empire a millennium-plus ago; heightened there, by theological debate and dissension being a "hobby" which much of the populace engaged in passionately. Harry Turtledove has written a series of fantasy novels set in the imaginary empire of Videssos, which strongly resembles Byzantium; including a basic religion (with innumerable variations played on it) a good deal like Christianity, and very strong on the notion of eternal hideous punishment for everyone who does not believe and practice in exactly the right way. The people of this realm have a saying, "If three Videssians are shipwrecked together on a desert island, in no time at all there will be six heresies there."

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7204 on: February 26, 2013, 08:39:18 AM »
Well, we're looking at houses right now, and we're homeschooling.  So it won't even matter to us how good or bad the schools are, for our own sake.  But at least for us, finding a house in a good school district matters because we'll need to sell or rent the house out eventually, and *other* people will be looking for that.   So it's an important aspect of the value of the house.  Of course, it's probably more important to us since we'll only be stationed there for four years, whereas that may matter less to somebody who expects to live in that house for the foreseeable future, maybe the rest of their life.

I'd still be concerned.  The better the schools, generally the lower the crime rate.

Our school still had some crime around.  Can't tell you how many bomb threats we had at our school one fall.   Almost every time we got evacuated to the middle school's library but hey I didn't mind, I loved to read and it was a guaranteed hour at least that I got to sit in a comfy little cranny somewhere and read. 

Then one day, on my birthday at that, on a drizzly gray November day, the kid posted bomb threat warnings on the front doors of both the high school and the middle school, likely hoping that we'd get sent home. Nope, we just stood out a safe distance from the school waiting for them to do a search and let us back in.  I was rather annoyed at the kid who had done it cause at that rate we all knew it was a kid who attended that school.

Funny thing was the kid was caught.  By his mother. How? He had typed up the warnings on the family computer and saved the document!
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7205 on: February 26, 2013, 06:47:25 PM »
My brain broke trying to figure out how on earth these people thought this was a good idea. It was so astounding, I took a picture.  This was taken on a major South Florida highway (it only looks like there was no traffic...there was a wall of traffic behind me).  It's not a great picture, but if you look near the front of the truck, in the center, you'll see a man sitting on the ledge where the bed of the truck meets the cab.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7206 on: February 26, 2013, 07:13:18 PM »

And after I picked my jaw up off the ground (who tells a 19 year old girl her father is going to hell?) 

My niece was engaged to a young man who was killed in an accident. My sister was trying to explain this to her 2 year old grandson, and told him that the young man was now in Heaven with Jesus. My sister's MIL interrupted to tell her not to say that, after all, they didn't know if the young man had been a REAL Christian.
As if it would be useful to tell a 2 year old that someone he loved could possibly be in hell because he wasn't the right sort of believer?

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7207 on: February 26, 2013, 07:19:23 PM »


My niece was engaged to a young man who was killed in an accident. My sister was trying to explain this to her 2 year old grandson, and told him that the young man was now in Heaven with Jesus. My sister's MIL interrupted to tell her not to say that, after all, they didn't know if the young man had been a REAL Christian.
As if it would be useful to tell a 2 year old that someone he loved could possibly be in hell because he wasn't the right sort of believer?

What was your sister's MIL thinking?  Good grief!!  The child is two.

Not only that, but in my opinion a "real" Christian would never even think such a thing, much less let such words fall out of her mouth!

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7208 on: February 26, 2013, 07:31:50 PM »
DH's paternal grandmother was very ill and I believe also was dealing with some depression.  Both which led to her taking her life.  I never knew her so I have no idea what she was like, just that she'd had cancer and was in a lot of pain.  DH I think was a teen at the time and at her funeral mass the priest said in front of her loved ones assembled that she would not be going to heaven because of what she did.

Being raised Catholic I know how the church felt about suicide but c'mon, you don't say that kind of thing at a person's funeral in front of those who are already mourning them. 
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7209 on: February 26, 2013, 07:41:01 PM »
I would respond to this sort of thing with something a Catholic nun said in religion class when I was 15. 

'Because God is all just, we know there is a Hell. 
Because God is all merciful, we don't know if there's anybody in it'. 

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7210 on: February 26, 2013, 09:01:42 PM »

Our school still had some crime around.  Can't tell you how many bomb threats we had at our school one fall.   Almost every time we got evacuated to the middle school's library but hey I didn't mind, I loved to read and it was a guaranteed hour at least that I got to sit in a comfy little cranny somewhere and read. 

Then one day, on my birthday at that, on a drizzly gray November day, the kid posted bomb threat warnings on the front doors of both the high school and the middle school, likely hoping that we'd get sent home. Nope, we just stood out a safe distance from the school waiting for them to do a search and let us back in.  I was rather annoyed at the kid who had done it cause at that rate we all knew it was a kid who attended that school.

This reminds me of something that still hurts my brain to this day.

I was still at high school when the September 11 attacks happened. The high school I went to is in the New Zealand capital and within easy walking distance of my school was the US embassy, the British high commission, the Fijian high commission (and it was only a year or so after the George Speight coup), parliament, the high court, the court of appeal, the ministry of defence, the ministry of education, the crown law office, and probably a number of other government buildings and embassies that I can't remember. The brain hurty part? The day after the attacks, someone called in a bomb threat to the ministry of youth affairs.

I just don't get why you would pick youth affairs as your target with all those other buildings around. Especially at such a time.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7211 on: February 26, 2013, 09:21:08 PM »
Well the Monsignor told me my Grandfather was burning in hell after he died. I was three. Had nightmares of Pappa burning for weeks. Once Mom figured out why, she called the rectory every time I woke her up screaming in terror and woke up the monsignor.

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It's probably not eHell-appropriate, but I just want to say that I like your mom's style.
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7212 on: February 26, 2013, 10:10:18 PM »
Well the Monsignor told me my Grandfather was burning in hell after he died. I was three. Had nightmares of Pappa burning for weeks. Once Mom figured out why, she called the rectory every time I woke her up screaming in terror and woke up the monsignor.

*snip*

It's probably not eHell-appropriate, but I just want to say that I like your mom's style.

I don't know, don't we frequently advocate allowing people to experience the natural consequences of their actions?

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7213 on: February 26, 2013, 11:31:24 PM »

Our school still had some crime around.  Can't tell you how many bomb threats we had at our school one fall.   Almost every time we got evacuated to the middle school's library but hey I didn't mind, I loved to read and it was a guaranteed hour at least that I got to sit in a comfy little cranny somewhere and read. 

Then one day, on my birthday at that, on a drizzly gray November day, the kid posted bomb threat warnings on the front doors of both the high school and the middle school, likely hoping that we'd get sent home. Nope, we just stood out a safe distance from the school waiting for them to do a search and let us back in.  I was rather annoyed at the kid who had done it cause at that rate we all knew it was a kid who attended that school.

This reminds me of something that still hurts my brain to this day.

I was still at high school when the September 11 attacks happened. The high school I went to is in the New Zealand capital and within easy walking distance of my school was the US embassy, the British high commission, the Fijian high commission (and it was only a year or so after the George Speight coup), parliament, the high court, the court of appeal, the ministry of defence, the ministry of education, the crown law office, and probably a number of other government buildings and embassies that I can't remember. The brain hurty part? The day after the attacks, someone called in a bomb threat to the ministry of youth affairs.

I just don't get why you would pick youth affairs as your target with all those other buildings around. Especially at such a time.

Probably it was someone connected with youth affairs who had something to gain from, say, work ceasing there for a day. Or a disgruntled employee. I went to high school with a guy who turned out to be calling in bomb threats to the school from a pay phone at the school to get out of class. It wouldn't make much sense as a target for "regular" terrorists--but for pranksters or disgruntled individuals, maybe.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7214 on: February 27, 2013, 08:46:05 AM »
I would respond to this sort of thing with something a Catholic nun said in religion class when I was 15. 

'Because God is all just, we know there is a Hell. 
Because God is all merciful, we don't know if there's anybody in it'.

I absolutely love this.