And yes, he's very divorced now (apparently it was pretty ugly, go figure).I'm shocked! How could she let a prize like him get away?
Oh, I think I worked with the same guy!
The real brain hurty part of it was that he got married halfway through the year I worked with him. So he knew he couldn't stand living with the woman, he knew he didn't want to get married, and he just did it anyway and acted like a victim for it happening and badmouthed her everywhere. It was uncomfortable. He claimed she had "roped him into it" by getting pregnant. He had two other children by different women so it's not like he hadn't practiced walking away before.
The really brain-hurty part was when his marriage was on the skids and he was playing the victim, he was scoring with new women (also co-workers) who saw him as a poor, put-upon, lost soul who needed saving.
One night as he left with the new girlfriend (he had left his wife right before she gave birth) I had the sudden urge to yell, "Hold the condom up to the light FIRST" after them. But I really did resist (and I'm not just lying about that because I'm on ehell.)