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gramma dishes

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7050 on: February 13, 2013, 08:31:58 PM »
...   she says, almost weeping, 'I have no phone privacy here!'

Perhaps she mentioned that because she  was hoping that since the evaluation was going to be more or less 'public' that maybe you would go easy on her and perhaps less critical because you didn't want her to be embarrassed or feel humiliated in front of coworkers?  ???

Piratelvr1121

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7051 on: February 13, 2013, 08:36:22 PM »
Piratelvr1121, I wonder what the school district would do if you did have twins, with the first born at 23:58 on August 31st and the second born at 12:05 on September 1st?  Would the August 31st baby start school a year earlier than the September 1st baby?

OW!  Ow! You made my brain hurt!
This made me curious about how common it is to have twins with different birthdays and just did a Google search and happened upon an article that said there were 3 sets of twins born this pass New Years in separate years in the US.

Most likely they would both start school a year later, but I think the parents would have the option to decide, based on the maturity level of the kids.


That's what I would expect too.
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7052 on: February 13, 2013, 08:52:48 PM »
...   she says, almost weeping, 'I have no phone privacy here!'

Perhaps she mentioned that because she  was hoping that since the evaluation was going to be more or less 'public' that maybe you would go easy on her and perhaps less critical because you didn't want her to be embarrassed or feel humiliated in front of coworkers?  ???

Well, no one would have been able to hear my end of the conversation unless she put the phone on speaker, which would have been really silly on her part!

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« Reply #7053 on: February 13, 2013, 08:56:01 PM »
Piratelvr1121, I wonder what the school district would do if you did have twins, with the first born at 23:58 on August 31st and the second born at 12:05 on September 1st?  Would the August 31st baby start school a year earlier than the September 1st baby?

OW!  Ow! You made my brain hurt!
This made me curious about how common it is to have twins with different birthdays and just did a Google search and happened upon an article that said there were 3 sets of twins born this pass New Years in separate years in the US.

Most likely they would both start school a year later, but I think the parents would have the option to decide, based on the maturity level of the kids.


That's what I would expect too.

The Nestling (my sister) started school when she was 4, then promptly turned 5 but three days later.  One of the Eagle's closest friends did the exact same thing.

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« Reply #7054 on: February 13, 2013, 09:04:49 PM »
My husband and I met in 3rd grade (don't ask me how we met except that we were in the same class - neither of us remembers our first meeting).  I COULD LOOK RIGHT OVER HIS HEAD.  I was big for my age, he was on the small side.

However, once he hit puberty, he figured out how to grow.  I topped out at 5'7", he kept going to just under 6 feet. 
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7055 on: February 13, 2013, 09:27:59 PM »
My husband and I met in 3rd grade (don't ask me how we met except that we were in the same class - neither of us remembers our first meeting).  I COULD LOOK RIGHT OVER HIS HEAD.  I was big for my age, he was on the small side.

However, once he hit puberty, he figured out how to grow.  I topped out at 5'7", he kept going to just under 6 feet.

I was 5'3" in 5th grade and towered over everyone even through 6th grade.  I topped at 5'7" at the end of 6th grade/beginning of 7th and I haven't grown taller since.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7056 on: February 13, 2013, 09:29:30 PM »
Piratelvr1121, I wonder what the school district would do if you did have twins, with the first born at 23:58 on August 31st and the second born at 12:05 on September 1st?  Would the August 31st baby start school a year earlier than the September 1st baby?

OW!  Ow! You made my brain hurt!
This made me curious about how common it is to have twins with different birthdays and just did a Google search and happened upon an article that said there were 3 sets of twins born this pass New Years in separate years in the US.

Most likely they would both start school a year later, but I think the parents would have the option to decide, based on the maturity level of the kids.


That's what I would expect too.

The Nestling (my sister) started school when she was 4, then promptly turned 5 but three days later.  One of the Eagle's closest friends did the exact same thing.
In my experience, most school systems have a method to "test in" for kids who are close to the cutoff (say 2 weeks or a month or so).  However, in my area it's also becoming common to hold kids out an additional year, especially late summer babies.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7057 on: February 13, 2013, 09:47:52 PM »
Actually, the twins would need to have birthdays of Sept. 1 and Sept. 2 to be one year apart in school.
"Must be age 5 by September 1st" is the common rule.  September 2nd is a rotten b-day to have for some!

My b-day is 9-1.  made it with a few hours to spare!   DH and I both graduated HS at 17, as will our DD.  I stared college at 17, but only for a few days. 

Minor brain confusion at the pharmacy-
"pick-up or drop off?"
it is a refill, may or may not have been called in by doc.
"So, which is it?"
I dunno.
Had a new insurance card so we got all the right info and all is well, regardless.  :)
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« Reply #7058 on: February 13, 2013, 09:49:42 PM »
That is so true it can be shocking.  At a family gathering we saw 'Timmy' at 14.  He was, to be honest, a short, round child.  Two years later, when we next saw him, he had turned into a tall, well-built young man.  If we saw him on the street, we wouldn't have recognized him. 

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WOW what a change!  And WOW what a hunk!  :-)

Keep in the mind they gave him false buck teeth and padding to make his ears stick out.

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« Reply #7059 on: February 13, 2013, 09:53:11 PM »
A note on height and brain hurt.

I used to work in a doctor's office and one of my duties involved bringing faxes to the appropriate folders which sometimes meant just pulling the files off the shelves and putting them in a cubby for the appropriate doctor but sometimes if the patient had been recently seen I'd have to hunt them down wherever the doc preferred them to be so he could write notes.

Well one day I happened to be looking through the files on the nurses station when she brought a woman back and measured her height.  Which was 5'2 3/4". (which is also my height, so my ears perked up at that)

The woman says "Boy, I've shrunk, I used to be 5'7!"  :o  Good grief, if it's possible to shrink that much I'm in trouble! LOL!  Here I was expecting to end up maybe just under 5' when I'm older.  But man, 5 inches?
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7060 on: February 13, 2013, 09:59:24 PM »
My last year of high school in 1987, I was 5'11 3/4". I am now 5'10".

I blame DS.  >:D
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7061 on: February 13, 2013, 10:45:07 PM »

We used to peel the protective paper off of the sticker and before we applied it, cut a piece of Baggie the size of the sticker then about 1/2 " narrower, put that on the sticker leaving about 1/4 " on the side edges to stick it on the window. Then we removed the thing every year and only had those small strips to remove, if we felt like it. Some years they were clear so we put the new sticker right on top of the old edges.

Well, aren't you clever! I have to stick an association sticker to our window each year and now it will be a snap, thank you.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7062 on: February 13, 2013, 10:59:29 PM »
That is so true it can be shocking.  At a family gathering we saw 'Timmy' at 14.  He was, to be honest, a short, round child.  Two years later, when we next saw him, he had turned into a tall, well-built young man.  If we saw him on the street, we wouldn't have recognized him. 

Matthew Lewis:



Also Matthew Lewis:


WOW what a change!  And WOW what a hunk!  :-)
Reminds me of Jerry O'Connell.

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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7063 on: February 14, 2013, 08:45:14 AM »
When I was a child and into my early teens, I had olive skin that tanned beautifully and without effort. Around age 16, my skin changed to a blue-undertone and very pale that burns very easily. My hair has lightened from brunette to a dark strawberry blond. My eyes have stayed a green/blue/grey hazel with a gold ring around the pupil. DS has my eyes.
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Re: Exchanges with People that Make Your Brain Hurt
« Reply #7064 on: February 14, 2013, 09:10:31 AM »
I was similar. As a kid, I had skin that, while normally somewhat pale would easily develop into a deep tan in the summer. My hair was blond and mostly straight, and would go almost white in the sun.

Then I hit puberty, stopped growing in height, suddenly had skin that burns at the thought of sun and was even paler, and my hair went curly and turned medium brown.

My hair will be the death of me. It took me 10 years to learn how to deal with my curly hair and be pretty good at it, then I decided to cut it to chin length last summer and it suddenly stopped being curly. Run a brush through it, and I don’t even need a straightener. So, now I’m back to learning how to style it.

ETA: brain hurt—one of the last women that cut my almost waist-length curly hair before I chopped it all off just couldn’t get over how curly and soft it was, and how I must not have styled it that often or dyed it (true, it was actually pretty wash and wear, maybe a bit of curl defining mousse). She kept lamenting how she wishes her hair was like that too. Well, lady, it’d be an easy fix, considering you just named off the reasons why mine was…you could do the same!
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