I will keep this as bare bones as possible, but can fill in details as needed. Cliffs Notes are that my husband killed himself in July. I started dating
my BF in September. For various reasons, we are not hiding our relationship
but have not made it extremely public until recently. However, anyone that actually knows me well is aware that I am happily dating
Today, as I was leaving for Christmas with my daughter and my family (and not BF) my doorbeel rang. It was a 20-something woman with a dozen artistically displayed roses for me, with a card that said on the outside a close spelling of my last name (which can double as a first name phonetically) and on the inside a blank card that said in scrolled handwriting (that to me appeared like a young girl's) "Y.S.A."
I think the flowers (which are very nice and probably expensive) are from a secret admirer not my BF and I am freaked out, especially because they came to my house. To add to the mystery, I am well aware that several of my late husband's friends are "interested" as are various other people who are aware I was widowed. But I have no idea who the flowers are from.
I feel weird. I don't want to tell my BF, but I probably should, but tell him what? Do I ask various people if they sent the roses or just wait to see what happens? I am afraid this will rock the boat with my BF and I don't want that.
Any thoughts or advice appreciated. Thank you!