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Author Topic: When you don't know the spouse's name  (Read 5131 times)

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TootsNYC

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Re: When you don't know the spouse's name
« Reply #15 on: December 28, 2011, 04:56:48 PM »
You could have called Mr. John Smith and asked for his wife's name to write into your address book. Or called someone who also knows him, and asked them what her name was because you just had a mental blank.

And sending a separate card could have been softened by adding a note--"Julie--I'm late to hear the news that you and John reconciled. I'm glad for you, and I wish you both the best."

bopper

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Re: When you don't know the spouse's name
« Reply #16 on: January 03, 2012, 07:24:36 AM »
In that situation I would address the card to "The Smith's" and inside the card would be to "Becky and family".