I remember reading on this site how some people wished they had have pulled out of their wedding, even the minute before they went down that aisle. I commend these two for not going through with it- the repercussions with friends and family not as important as their gut feelings telling them it wasn't the right time. I just can't fault them for putting a nice spin on something sad really. If this had happened at a church at their hometown, people would still have needed to travel there and it would have ruined many peoples plans just the same. I think the only difference is that it looks like these two are still together and didn't totally break up when they got cold feet.