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ACK! Ms PITA - venting

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wetblanket:
I realize I'm going to have to find another way to deal with Ms PITA because I can't keep reacting like this.  Having PMS does not help either!

So today I email Ms PITA and a group of other co-workers with a very simple question.

In typical Ms PITA fashion, she replies by not answering the question but giving me some irrelevant information, and then suggests a totally different way of doing my job to avoid these kind of "problems".  And she obliquely suggests that I shouldn't be asking this type of question in the first place.

The other day she tried to debate me on minor procedural matter even AFTER I pointed out about five different places in a manual that say to do it the way I am telling her.

I HATE this woman.  I truly do.  And I can tell she is going to fight me every step of the way now that I am no longer propping her up and accommodating her incompetence.

Off with her head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chocolate Cake:
Unless she is the ONLY one with the answer you need, leave her off of your email list. 

wetblanket:
Trust me, I don't have anything more to do with her than is strictly necessary. :-X

Just since my last post, she's done it again!

I sent out another group email about another subject, and she replied with another totally irrelevant answer. 

It's my personal belief that this woman has some sort of learning disability or dyslexia or ADHD or something. I'm not at all qualified to diagnose this, I'm just going by my sense that something is off.  I think she has developed a combination of helplessness and uncooperativeness as a cover.  She'll use any excuse to wriggle out of doing work, and will try all kinds of passive aggressive ways to maintain control.

Off with her head, but slowly, with pain....

Shoo:
I'd send her an email pronto that says since she doesn't seem to be able to offer any useful assistance, you will not be including her in group emails in the future.  Let her chew on that one.

wetblanket:
Hoo boy.

I counted - it took 4 emails to get an answer to "Are you handling any of these contracts?" and 6 emails to get an answer to "Where is the [contract work] being carried out?"

And I got A LOT of guff along the lines of "why are you even asking me this? isn't there another process for you to get this information? maybe you should do it THIS way".

Like it's wrong/inappropriate for me to ask her about her contracts.

Funny, I cc'ed my boss on the emails and Boss had no problem with the question.

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