Let's say I want to host a BBQ, and I invite people who keep kosher as well as people who don't.
Since the BBQ is all about meat, all the sides will be non-dairy (hummus, salad, etc...)
However, since I really prefer dairy desserts, would it be OK to serve dairy desserts as well as non-dairy ones, on a separate table, clearly marked dairy?
I asked a friend's husband who keeps kosher, and he said he didn't love the idea, but if it was on a separate table and clearly marked then it should not be aproblem. My question is, is it rude?
(My kitchen is not kosher, so to host a kosher meal means buying everything disposable, including serving bowls, serving utensils and investing in a new knife and chopping board. The grill can be "kosher-ized".)