So we had Christmas with my dad's family last night (my 3 aunts, grandfather, 2 uncles, and cousins) at my aunt's house. The one who yelled at me. I had opted out of going, as I figured I would not be welcome at her house. For 8 months now, every time she has seen me, she has given me a dirty look, or made sure I knew I was being ignored, or said something mean to me.
So, naturally, I did not really want to go. One of my aunts found out and called me and pretty much gave me a lecture saying that she had talked to Aunt T (Toxic) and she knew I would be coming if my family was invited and she was fine with it. Aunt T said as long as I didn't bring anything up, neither would she and she was willing for me to come. I had no intention of bringing anything up, I haven't brought it up in the entire 8 months since it happened, so this was not a problem. I know better than to expect an apology, but decided to go and give it a try.
Well, I was surprised. Aunt T was VERY nice to me, and talked to me like nothing had ever happened. She asked me about school, and I asked her if I could give her a hug, and she was very much for that.
So, while I don't really want to do lots with her, and she didn't apologize for it, I think we have made up and put it behind us. We are family, and I do love her, so I want us to get along. I never wanted this to happen. It's a Christmas miracle!
Sorry this update is so long. I think I rambled alot. So glad all the family is getting along! This does not mean we will be resuming any old relationship we have, just that we get along.