With regards to the IMs, I'm on AOL and I don't believe the instant messages save. I have saved all the emails where he's asked me to be his friend though.
I think by now, he would have made a forward move. I have been receiving several private calls lately (I don't answer, usually because I am not able to catch them) but I don't know if I can attribute this to him. My machine, as mentioned earlier, is now on the automated greeting, so maybe he is just making sure I still have the number. Still, to be sure, if one comes through when I am with someone, I will ask them to answer and say it is their number. These calls are every 3 or 4 days, and only one a day.
I think he would have been more aggressive about it if he was still intent on "having me." What are your guys' thoughts?