I think it really comes down to communication styles. Some people text and call all the time, some people don't. I'm a don't. Even as a kid I thought it was downright weird my friends who would call their parent every afternoon (while the parent was at work) - I never, ever called my parents because I was instructed to only ever call if there was an emergency and, well, there never was one. An old friend of mine has been married for 13 years - since before she was married and still to this day she calls her DH every evening on his break to chat. I have never once called a boyfriend or my current fiance at work. Never. I have a few friends who text all the time, random updates, saying hi, whole conversations, etc. I only text with actual information.
It certainly can work to have two different communication styles in a relationship - you just find a middle ground. But it sounds like you aren't to keen to work too hard to get there. And honestly for me, I don't care if a guy is older, or heavy and quite frankly I prefer bald guys to a full head of hair guy... but the dishonesty of misrepresenting himself on the dating site would be such a huge turnoff to me, I doubt I'd want to work very hard to compromise on communication style either.