DS is turning one in less than a month! Every parent was right, time goes by really fast, especially the first year.
DH and I are at odds about the guestlist. DH wants to keep it strictly close family and friends, about 38 people, which I don't mind. However, he also wants to invite his two best friends and their wives too. DH and his two best friends belong to a social circle where everyone is almost always invited to get togethers. I feel that if we invite his two best friends and their wives, we should include everyone in the social circle too, especially another couple who also has a baby. This would increase the guestlist to 50+ people or so, which is more than DH and I prefer. Chances are not everyone will attend, but I don't want to offend anyone by inviting some and not others but I don't want to have more guests than we would prefer either in case everyone does show up.
Any suggestions or what would you do?