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GI_JANE

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I try not to make too many assumptions from people I haven't met yet.

We met online, been chatting for 2 weeks, he asks to meet me on a Saturday. I accept.

Day of 6pm, he starts talking about how he is sick, and does today work or do I want to schedule it to Sunday instead. I tell him it's okay if he can't make it he asks to change from 8 to 9:15.

8:58 I get a message saying he is having family problems and can't make it. (very short text) and asks what I am doing next day.

I text I am sorry about his situation and I am not free.

Should I give this guy another chance or is this too rude?Onli

Judah

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Re: Online date cancels on me 17 mins before we're supposed to meet
« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2012, 06:27:56 PM »
Ask for what you want. Let's be clear on this one:
Subtle hints don't work.
Strong hints don't work.
Really obvious hints don't work.
Just say it!

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Re: Online date cancels on me 17 mins before we're supposed to meet
« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2012, 06:58:06 PM »
Locked because it seems this was a double post, and the link provided above should suffice.
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