What a butthead! OP, I'm glad your friend stood up to him, and told him there would not BE any more dates! I wouldn't put up with his baloney either. While I'm fluffy and out of shape, running is something I simply cannot do, due to my knees being completely shot. So that and a lot of other exercises are out of the question. yet in the past, I've worked with PT's who were able to work around MY limitations, and give me other stuff to do.
And anyone who dares to question MY food consumption will have an issue. Even if I look like I could miss a whole bunch of meals! He was way too controlling, and I'm not surprised he's single!