Ok so I'm getting married in about a month. And I forgot to invte someone. Well i thought about it and thought "ehhh, I haven't seen her in a long time..." and got distracted with relatives and other friends and she got left off the invite list. She hasn't of course said anything to me, as she is a classy sort of gal, but I suspect she realizes she didn't get an invite (we have mutual friends, and while I have maintained radio silence on Facebook and the like, some people did post pictures from the shower, etc so I'm sure she's aware).
Anyway I feel its way too late to invite her now, she'd know it was a B list invite. But I really do feel terribly. And I honestly would like for her to attend because I honestly think she is a lovely person and even though we don't see each other often (she lives about 40 miles away) I don't want to stop being friends with her. (And its actually not B list - we haven't gotten anywhere near the "expect 20% decline rate", we just are lucky that we picked a venue that can accommodate a lot of people - our list now is about 20 people over what we had expected, due to a lot of "yeses" and a few other last minute additions.)
So would it be terrible to white lie? I seem to remember she moved in January, but I know only in the most casual sense (she never sent me the new address or anything, I just happen to remember it was buried in a FB status update in regard to furniture or something)... so I was thinking of calling her the day after the RSVP's are due and asking about her attendance and then feigning a whole "omigosh! You never got the invite? Wait do you still live at...? I'm sorry you never got it, of course you are invited!"