Pippen, after reading your posts on various issues for some time, it really does seem that you almost invite difficult issues into your life. There seem to have been multiple instances of people in your life causing drama.
This may come across as harsh, but maybe it's worth really looking at your interactions with others, especially with regard to actually being valued for yourself, as opposed to what you can provide for them. It comes across very strongly (to me, at least) that you interact with many who feel you should "provide" for them. It also seems they don't have a lot of respect for you.
Perhaps it's time to start valuing yourself, rather than feeling you have to portray a certain persona so others will "like" you?
Just a thought. Good luck with it all.