I swap pet sitting services with the woman who lives next door. We're friendly but not friends, and except for the occasional borrowing of sugar, we're not in each other's homes unless we're taking care of the other's pet. Last night I had to go to an event right after work, so I asked her to stop in and let my dog out to pee. When I came home at 10 pm, she and her boyfriend were on my couch watching a DVD, with the remains of take-out sitting on my coffee table. They clearly wanted me to hang out and watch the last of the DVD but I politely told them that I was exhausted and thanked them for letting the dog out.
24 hours later, I'm still feeling very uncomfortable at the fact that they made themselves so at home in my living room when I wasn't there. I don't mind them hanging out like that when I've asked them to take care of the dog for an overnight and I will even sit and keep their dog company for a while when they're out of town, but when I'm just out for a longer than usual day, that feels weird. How would E-Hell feel? If y'all would feel the same way, what should I do?