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Yarnspinner

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1695 on: September 28, 2013, 09:09:49 AM »
I second that.

Yeah, me too, and give them the description of the car, the VIN number might have been pulled out of a hat for all you know.
And it does sound extremely fishy.

It doesn't so much sound fishy as it's swimming up stream past grizzly bears to spawn.

Salmony ;)

Just wanted to add a big ol'  POD to everything said here.  White Dragon, would your son like a battered 16 year old Honda?  I promise I have the registration papers...somewhere

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1696 on: September 28, 2013, 11:57:15 AM »
I'm weighing whether to go to the police or not.

The seller did provide a VIN and we paid to have a lien search  done. We also ran the VIN through the police database of stolen vehicles.

In both cases we got "search has returned no results".
Initially we figured we were good, but I went back to the stolen vehicle database and entered a nonsense string of numbers and letters.
I got the exact same result.

So I can't tell if she gave us a real VIN or not.

Also, the ad is no longer on kijiji. But Dragonson may still have her number.
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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1697 on: September 28, 2013, 12:06:18 PM »
The VIN may be legit, but the car isn't hers to sell.  I have a cousin who sold her mother's car for drug money.  She had access to the keys and my aunt wouldn't press charges.


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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1698 on: September 28, 2013, 03:44:04 PM »
I don't know how much of a hassle it can be to report it but they might not need much and you'll know you helped a little so that someone like your son but who doesn't have the knowhow to sense something is off and know when to back up doesn't get sucked into buying a stolen car.

A brief description of what happened, the contact numbers you had for this person and the old URL to the kijiji add should be enough, they'll get the cache of the page or might be able to work with kijiji (who knows) to get all the info back.
Any pictures you might have saved of the car from the add too.

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1699 on: September 28, 2013, 10:16:08 PM »
Nominating Babybartfast for being a scammer here  :P  She came home this week and announced "I'm the only kid in my class who doesn't have to do homework!"  I was understandably dubious about this  :P  I ended up going into her school the next day to volunteer anyway, and I had a chance to talk with her teacher:

Me: She told me she's the only kid who doesn't have to do homework.  Is there something I've been missing?

Teacher: She told me you threw her homework away!  So I stopped insisting she take it home!

 ::) ::) ::) ::)

(For the record, we did figure it out: they were given worksheets each day in class which they were supposed to finish at home.  Babybartfast was getting hers done in class.  Naturally, when I saw an already-finished worksheet - done correctly - I assumed it was just to keep the parents informed on what they had done in school that day, so I looked at it along with her day's artwork and whatnot and tossed the lot.  Now I know to look for a  :) or a  :( drawn in the corner so I know the teacher has already checked it!)

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1700 on: September 28, 2013, 10:40:22 PM »
Slartibartfast - When Loren was about 3 she complained about an earache. She was even doing the tug on her ear thing. So sis took her to the doctor. The doctor was puzzled because both ears were completely clear and healthy.


Then Loren bounded up and announced "Lollipop now"


Sis said that was the most expensive lollipop she ever bought.


This did convince my BIL to let the kids have candy occasionally rather than once in a blue moon. Move it out of the forbidden temptation category. Both kids prefer healthy snacks now that they can have candy sometimes. 
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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1701 on: September 28, 2013, 10:45:46 PM »
Slartibartfast, I am not sure how to word this without coming across as critical of your parental styles, but you throw away your daughter's artwork? That makes my heart hurt. Please tell me that you do keep some of it.

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1702 on: September 28, 2013, 11:27:14 PM »
Slartibartfast, I am not sure how to word this without coming across as critical of your parental styles, but you throw away your daughter's artwork? That makes my heart hurt. Please tell me that you do keep some of it.

If her kids are anything like mine, there are piles and piles and piles of artwork.  Some are probably especially nice and worth keeping, and others aren't.  I couldn't possibly keep everything my kids did, we would be inundated with it!  I pick out a few nice pieces here and there, some for the fridge, some for our display on the wall by the kitchen table, some for the kids' portfolios, but yes, I do trash the rest.  Sometimes I'm industrious enough to take pictures of the best stuff first.  But I don't think saying that she looks over her kids' artwork and papers and then throws them away implies that *every* single thing gets thrown away... but really, keeping more than 1 in 10 would probably be enough to count as hoarders.
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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1703 on: September 29, 2013, 12:18:32 AM »
Slartibartfast, I am not sure how to word this without coming across as critical of your parental styles, but you throw away your daughter's artwork? That makes my heart hurt. Please tell me that you do keep some of it.

My son is about the same age as Slartibarfast's DD and he goes through art supplies like crazy. He will gladly spend half an hour drawing/painting and will make a picture for anyone who comes over, no matter how short their visit is. BIL came for dinner and went home with half a dozen pictures.
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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1704 on: September 29, 2013, 02:12:05 AM »
Slartibartfast, I am not sure how to word this without coming across as critical of your parental styles, but you throw away your daughter's artwork? That makes my heart hurt. Please tell me that you do keep some of it.

My son is about the same age as Slartibarfast's DD and he goes through art supplies like crazy. He will gladly spend half an hour drawing/painting and will make a picture for anyone who comes over, no matter how short their visit is. BIL came for dinner and went home with half a dozen pictures.

Ditto, if kept a quarter of what my daughter produced I would have no room in my house. A couple times a month I keep something that is different or meaningful but 99% of my daughter's art goes in the recycling

I have a system where it goes in a box in her room if she wants to work on it. I take the stuff from the bottom and toss that. I do look over her art from school or day care with her and let her explain it while I admire it but there is no way I keep all of it.

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1705 on: September 29, 2013, 02:34:16 AM »
I do keep some, such as this one:



(That says "sparkly," by the way - I wouldn't let her get out the glitter.)

She comes home with 1-2 things a day, though, most of it not fridge-worthy.  I save most of it long enough to show DH and then toss it.

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1706 on: September 29, 2013, 09:02:05 AM »
Random caller "Hello, I'm James from your broadband provider. We've noticed your broadband hasn't been running properly recently"
Me (With echoes of "Beggars, Moochers and Scammers " springing to mind. "No. It's been fine"
Puts down phone on him even as he's asking "How do you know?"

The real broadband provider confirmed they hadn't rung me, and told me to get back to them if it happened again.

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1707 on: September 29, 2013, 09:55:33 AM »
I was thought she was a big fan of the quiz site, sporcle.com
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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1708 on: September 29, 2013, 10:56:39 AM »
I was thought she was a big fan of the quiz site, sporcle.com

Oddly enough, I posted that picture on Twitter along with a comment about her "sporcle" rainbow and I got autofollowed by @sporkle and a private tweet to tell me I was on their "hall of fame tweets" for the week.  Methinks if they had actually read what I posted, they wouldn't have been so effusive . . .

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Re: S/O Beggars, Moochers and Scammers
« Reply #1709 on: September 29, 2013, 12:49:30 PM »
I bought my DD a three ring binder a while back, anything she really wants to keep goes into it--surprisingly, she's pickier about what's "good" than I am, and a lot of her stuff gets thrown out regularly. We do have enough that someday she can look back with nostalgia and see her own improvements over time.
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