Darned right Cass. See, this woman is not one I socialise with. Just about every time I've been to Rosie's (the pub) and she's been there, she's irritated me. Really upset me at times. When now DH and I went just after getting engaged, she sniped about my engagement ring. Something along the lines of DH wishing he had a better paid job!!!!! My response was not eHell approved. Liz was working behind the bar (she has done since we've known her! 6 years!) and asked her to either be nice or take her money elsewhere. She shot me cold looks all evening. DH was livid and I was fuming. She's not well liked. Most people tell her to button it and maybe I will now join them. I choose to go out for a good time and a sing. Not to be bullied by her.
I personally don't know if she'll have kids...she appears to.me to be beyond that time of life. I may be wrong. But I do know that if she did turn out to somehow have a child (fostering etc) the i would be happy for her and it wouldn't enter my head to say I didn't care. It wouldn't anyway, even if the conversation was mind numbingly boring to me. It's hurtful, dismissing and rude, rude, rude. Spine polishing in progress.