Sorry it took so long to reply. C was an option for me because Mental Sister is very utilitarian. I took some advice and just asked her. First she said, "Just me!". I then said, "I figured, but I didn't know if you guys were really in need of anything so I thought I'd ask." She thought about it and said both then, please, if I'm willing. I'll be getting them a changing table and the other small gifts I was getting them anyway (I still haven't figured out how two avid rock climbers don't have those rope bracelets...). Thanks for the advice everyone!