I am looking for a new dressy/cocktail type dress. Our Temple dress code is like yours, and I need to be able to wear this in the Temple, and to black tie evening things, like receptions, which may follow. Also, as a rapidly aging lady, I do personally want long sleeves (not sleeveless/strapless and a "wrap."), a non-skin-tight fit, and a knee-length or longer skirt. I can't find anything! Not even in large and expensive department stores. I have lately been looking on "modest clothing" sites, which seem mostly LDS (and thank you for them, LDSers). If you can rent something suitable where the wedding is being held, go for it. You may find it hard to get anything suitable in the US. I would call someone to ask about the colors, and there is nothing at all wrong with doing so.