What was she wearing when you answered the door? My mind is speculating wildly lol
Think very tight pink dress 3 sizes too small with a black bustier on top that practically pushed her chest up to her chin. She also had on a pair of fishnets and when she walked away the bottom of the dress kept riding up so I got an unfortunate view of what she was wearing under. A perfectly fine outfit for a club but kind of a weird choice when you're knocking on your neighbors door at 9 o'clock at night.
Your DH *must* put Tammy in her place, ASAP. Bluntly. "Tammy, your attention to me is inappropriate. Stop. Don't *ever* call out to me when I'm working out and if you aren't willing to accept help from my wife and only from me, then don't ask for help."
I actually really like this. It's direct and to the point and makes sure she understands that it is a command and not a request.
If your Husband isn't willing to say something to her, then what does he expect to happen?
He's willing to say quite a lot to her but what he is willing to say is neither nice or e-hell approved and I feel like it would just allow her to paint herself as the victim. DH takes his workouts very seriously and after she's interrupted him for the tenth time he'll stalk inside and start muttering angry Russian curses so for right now I'd rather he ignore her than just go off on her.
That must be a huge balcony for an apartment. Can he move the weights inside? I'm sure she won't stop trying to flirt with him just because of that, but in the meantime, it will give him some peace.
The balcony is pretty huge and it has enough room for his weights, punching bag, pull up bar and a few other machines they don't have in the apartment gym. There really isn't any room in our apartment for him to store all this stuff and he likes the fresh air while I like not having to hear him grunt or have his sweat everywhere.
I'm just surprised you can leave all that exercise equipment permanently on the balcony. I would have assumed that rain/heat/cold/etc would be damaging over time.
He has tarps he throws over everything and the balcony has a screen we can put over it to keep it insulated. The weight on the balcony isn't a problem since its a very newly built high rise and we already have the building manager come and check everything out before we put the gym out there so there are no safety concerns.