I've been babysitting for a friend for the past few months. She does pay me, but I consider it more of a favor than a job since I wouldn't have done it for anyone else. The money was just because she felt like she was taking advantage if she didn't.
However, I am currently 29 weeks pregnant and bigger than I was when I delivered DD. I can't keep picking the baby up. THey are 18 months and weighs as much as my DD that I was told to stop carrying last appointment. I can barely lift them to the changing table and I can't change them on the floor because I can't get back up. LOL. Also, I'm just so tired. I go to bed before 8 most nights. I feel like my DD is getting short changed and she needs some time before the new baby comes.
I just need to know how to phrase this without JADE-ing or sounding whiny but not be rude at the same time. Also, If I let her know this week, she'll have 3 weeks to find other arrangements due to the holidays so its not like I'll leave her high and dry for tomorrow morning.
I never say things right so I was hoping for some ideas. Thanks in advance.