Thanks for your responses.
I told CW "NO" to the facebook photos, but she was pretty adamant about using them, so I was second-guessing myself.
There is no time to contact spouses. This is pretty much a hurry-up project (much to my chagrin
) so I will use only what is available through work-photos.
Thanks for backing me up.
Still not sure what to do with the music. Going with R#1's CD will be the easiest and less time consuming (I haven't heard the whole CD yet) . . . and, yes, this is a surprise. Which is very difficult since R#1 lives in the next cube over to me, so privacy is tricky.