To answer your question, no some people cannot be happy. Ever. For any reason.
10 years would only make a difference if one of them were not over 18. IMHO.
A dear member of my own family and his spouse separated and divorced. It was actually a mutual decision and an amicable split. There are no children involved and all property was split right down the middle. Now, he has a GF, many years after the divorce was finalized, and there are members of the family that are just so outraged. How DARE he start dating
. Uhm , huh?
Also, my Grandmother was going on and on about a deceased cousin not having a headstone after being buried about 2 years and in the next breath she said, "oh and her husband is dating
again and she's not even cold yet
!" I mean,