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Bridemaid blues
PastryGoddess:
The girl was the OP and was young and trying to fit in with her boyfriends family. She did say that in hindsight it was a bad idea and has affected her relationship with her SIL to this day.
Sharnita:
Keep in mind, it doesn't sound like the bride herself had the fortitude to say no to MOG.
wolfie:
--- Quote from: Otterpop on January 07, 2013, 11:08:46 PM ---Chances are, with a bride this nasty to a virtual stranger, she was not a nice person to begin with. This is probably a pattern of behavior with her and no matter what OP did, the relationship was doomed. (Note the bride has no lasting friendships with any of her bridesmaids either.)
MIL was pushy, but I didn't read her as having evil intent.
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I don't have a real relationship with any of my bridesmaids anymore either. I don't think that fact is very telling.
Mental Magpie:
--- Quote from: wolfie on January 08, 2013, 03:47:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: Otterpop on January 07, 2013, 11:08:46 PM ---Chances are, with a bride this nasty to a virtual stranger, she was not a nice person to begin with. This is probably a pattern of behavior with her and no matter what OP did, the relationship was doomed. (Note the bride has no lasting friendships with any of her bridesmaids either.)
MIL was pushy, but I didn't read her as having evil intent.
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I don't have a real relationship with any of my bridesmaids anymore either. I don't think that fact is very telling.
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Ditto. I have now been a maid of honor 4 times and a bridesmaid 1. I speak to one (her wedding was just 9 days ago) regularly and my sister just barely. We all just grew apart.
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