Ohhh, yes. Quite entertaining, too, I might add.
Seems BIL lost his job. Again. And they need $2600 from us (me and DH, not that we have it, so what are we supposed to do, rob a bank?) so they can cover their mortgage payment or they will be homeless. And it's all my fault. Because I am fat, stupid, dumb, lazy - because when we lost our business, we couldn't afford to send her money anymore.
*** So if I were any good, I'd have gotten off my lazy *** a long time ago and started the new business like I'd talked about - but no, I'm too lazy, and now they are in trouble. And it's all my fault. And why haven't I called her? Why am I avoiding her? I'm just being immature, again, because anytime I get challenged on my behavior from her I run away and hide.
So, I'm stupid and lazy, and I owe her money (

), and it's my fault if they lose their house....I'm quite sure it's also my fault he lost his job, too, although she didn't explain that one....and since I don't hang around her trying to get browbeaten it also makes me a jerk, I guess.
This time, BIL didn't die....it's going to be the little Autistic boy....he's very, very sick because she can't afford to buy him the special foods h needs and he might starve to death if we don't send $$ RIGHT NOW. And didn't you know? IT'S ALL MY FAULT.
I've had it with this.

***There was a period of six months early in their marriage when they split up for half a year and because she had no income and he wasn't supporting her, we helped her out some with rent and some expenses. Where she got the idea NOW, years later, that this was supposed to continue....I don't know. I don't know. {{Shakes head}} Is it drugs? Hormones? Just crazy? I DON'T KNOW.
Tired of trying to figure it out. I'm sorry that the little boy is sick; I truly am, and I hope he gets the medical attention and nutrition he needs. I just don't know if I believe anything SIS says anymore. However, DH and I are debating whether we should intervene for the sake of the child, if he is that badly off; on the other hand, we both think she is a liar and will say anything to get what she wants. DH wants to call CPS to check on the boy, and I'm thinking it might be a good idea. Maybe they can check on him to make sure he's okay and the other child. I don't want to send SIS any cash because I don't think it would be spent on the boy. Not that we have right now to spare, but still. Plus, as foster kids, MY SIS AND BIL GET MONEY FROM THE STATE FOR THEIR CARE. SO WHY ARE THEY SUPPOSEDLY STARVING?! I think she is trying to manipulate me and I am so not taking it any more.

I AM JUST SO SICK OF THIS. I have not called her back - not sure if I will. My next call might just be to the authorities to check on the children. I am so over SIS right now.