In Asia, a baby is often kept at home, without visitors, for a month to allow the immune system to strengthen. This is important, and people work around that. I understand the concerns people raise about flu, but I also see why a date change won't work. Keep the date, since it works. I see nothing wrong with the wording on the invitation, except it may not be strong enough. Buy some masks, the best ones you can find, and hand them out to anybody who seems cold-y or otherwise unwell. Insist they wear them to be allowed in. They do help.