I appreciate all the replies.
Btw folks, I wasn’t just soliciting “Yes, oceanus, you’re right” agreements. But I truly think she was rude and that’s she could have easily handled it better.
Yes, it’s also possible she saw my number written down someplace – maybe an old piece of scratch paper, post-it, etc and was going thru a desk drawer, etc. However, I’m convinced she was on a fishing expedition.
I’ve seen landline phones with an indicator that shows all numbers that have been dialed and also all incoming numbers – unless the numbers are deleted.
Whoever said I don’t like her is right – based on my experience (even before this incident) and also observation, she is not someone I would even want to sit and have a cup of coffee with.
Anyway, sounds to me like she keeps him on a short leash and I inadvertently got caught up in it. If I had told J about the call (and I’ve decided not to) I think wife would have given a very different version. And it’s a potential “hot potato” that I don’t want to touch.
