I've all but given up eating out after I had to be rushed to an ER after 3 doses of epi couldn't get my breathing under control. I ate two dairy based foods that should not have had one drop of tomato in them, but there had to be cross contamination of some sort. My O2 sats were in the 70's, but an ex-friend (who wasn't even there) decided I was faking it and putting on a show in an attempt to garner pity (from who, I don't know). I totally get the frustration with food allergies. I also really love a number of the responses that have been suggested in this thread. I'm going to use quite a few of them!