I hate having my picture taken, and might even be a bit SS about avoiding the camera.
Occasionally, when I look through photo albums I get a bit sad that there are no pictures of me.
Then I put on my big girl panties and remind myself that the reason there are no pictures of me is because I actively avoided having my picture taken. Too bad for me. I made a choice, I have to live with the consequences.
I have no sympathy for the SM.
This was me when I was younger. I'm the unphotogenic one in a family of beauties... My three sisters especially. I never wanted my photo taken, because I hated the way I looked.
I still don't like having my photo taken, but I've made a conscious decision to "grin and bear it" because I know that years down the line no photos will bug me more than bad photos.