General Etiquette > Family and Children

When the camera shy feel left out

(1/16) > >>

SPuck:
http://www.denverpost.com/askamy/ci_22631432/ask-amy-couple-wants-exclude-cousins-from-house-warming-party-2-21-2013

I was reading Ask Amy today, as well as CrochetFanatic's thread, and I feel that the advice was off. If you actively try to delete yourself from family and candid photos, you shouldn't complain when you don't appear in the albums.

LeveeWoman:

--- Quote from: SPuck on February 21, 2013, 02:20:52 PM ---http://www.denverpost.com/askamy/ci_22631432/ask-amy-couple-wants-exclude-cousins-from-house-warming-party-2-21-2013

I was reading Ask Amy today, as well as CrochetFanatic's thread, and I feel that the advice was off. If you actively try to delete yourself from family and candid photos, you shouldn't complain when you don't appear in the albums.

--- End quote ---

Unlike our CrochetFanatic, the step-mother sounds as if she's a special snowflake.

Moray:

--- Quote from: LeveeWoman on February 21, 2013, 02:24:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: SPuck on February 21, 2013, 02:20:52 PM ---http://www.denverpost.com/askamy/ci_22631432/ask-amy-couple-wants-exclude-cousins-from-house-warming-party-2-21-2013

I was reading Ask Amy today, as well as CrochetFanatic's thread, and I feel that the advice was off. If you actively try to delete yourself from family and candid photos, you shouldn't complain when you don't appear in the albums.

--- End quote ---

Unlike our CrochetFanatic, the step-mother sounds as if she's a special snowflake.

--- End quote ---

POD.

Shoo:
I actually kind of agree with Amy on this one.  At least, I agree that having some compassion for the stepmother's feelings is warranted.  I don't think she's a special snowflake for feeling like she does.  I think anyone would feel left out, regardless of how or why it happened.  I like Amy's idea of talking about it and promising to make sure to get shots of her and the baby from now on so she can be included in the next photo book.

Judah:

--- Quote from: Shoo on February 21, 2013, 02:29:46 PM ---I actually kind of agree with Amy on this one.  At least, I agree that having some compassion for the stepmother's feelings is warranted.  I don't think she's a special snowflake for feeling like she does.  I think anyone would feel left out, regardless of how or why it happened.  I like Amy's idea of talking about it and promising to make sure to get shots of her and the baby from now on so she can be included in the next photo book.

--- End quote ---

But she excluded herself. I can understand her feeling left out, but she did it to herself and doesn't have a leg to stand on.

Navigation

[0] Message Index

[#] Next page

Go to full version