I was on my third boyfriend before I had an official 'date'. My first two boyfriends were in high school and we would just hang out either at his house, or in a group but never really went on dates. One of those guys I went and got ice-cream with, but my little brother was with us so I guess that doesn't count. Both these early relationships were only about a month long. My third boyfriend was more serious. He and I met just before college through an activity we were both involved in. We went to different colleges and he would come down to visit me, but most of the time we would just hang out in my room or walk around campus. Our (and my) first official traditional date was shortly after we started dating, we went to a dinner and a movie. The dinner was at Chuckie Cheese, but it still felt romantic to us.