BG: My SIL really dislikes me, when DH & I Started dating she told him point blank we were not allowed to get married before her. Since we decided to get married, without waiting for her (she has been single for 13 years) it caused a lot of problems with DH family. To the point where I have not seen my IL's for two years (I promise their behaviour warrents the no communication) One of the main problems was that SIL used EVERYTHING off our facebook to cause more drama Ex. I posted about how happy I was to see a certain family member and SIL ran to her parents and told them we were spending all our time with my family and that I am turning DH against them by allowing him to spend time with my family ect ect.
About a year an a half ago we decided to remove SIL from our facebooks, we decided this together as the drama was getting out of contol and it seemed if I was ever going to reconsile with his family we would need to stop the rumors. (To be clear DH respects that fact that I would like nothing to do with his family at this point, I respect the fact that they are his family and he is able to spend time with them as he pleases, although, his time with them is very limited as he doesnt agree how they treat me) SIL never posts but seemed to use it to keep track of us.
After deleting SIL from facebook, DH Family keeps bugging him to add her back on. They make comments about how he is a bad brother and how when they die he wont have anyone but his sister as family (to which he replies--I have my wife) He has told them numerous times that he was not adding her back on. Now it has gotten to the point where his Aunts and Uncles either will not talk to him or make comments about how terrible he is for not being friends with his sister. The last few times he has seen her, she refuses to talk to him and glares at him or makes snippy comments. Is it eaiser for him to just add her back and block her from seeing everything? was he in the wrong for defriending his sister for me?