At this point DH and I are waiting to hear back from the "blushing bride" and our friend. He asked if he could give DH a call yesterday but has not called. I'm not sure if they will ask me to bow out or not. I'm ok if they do that. I really should have thought about my answer before telling her yes. We do in fact have tension in our relationship with each other and I'm not even sure where it stems from. She has a gimme type of attitude and gives off the impression that she's better than others.
To put her personality into more perspective for everyone, she is not even inviting her future MIL to the bridal shower because she has a "slight" mental illness and when I say slight, I mean she would be perfectly behaved at the shower but still "Annie" does not want to deal with that. DH and I were asked to never mention the shower to his mother as she is not invited. DH's friend was also raised by his grandmother (who is also technically future MIL) and her last name is "Williams" however, DH's friends still has his legal last name of his fathers which is ethnic to his cultural background. "Annie" has decided that she does not want to carry his ethnic name and is making him change his name legally to "williams" before the wedding.
I checked on the dress yesterday, It is available in the color I need in all sizes and arrives to my home in 10 day's...there are no issues. The issue I have with her right now is that I told her this month I would order it, she agreed so why send a text two day's later telling me by Friday it HAS to be ordered. I myself planned a wedding...I understand the stress trust me! I had worse bm's then me..I don't think I'm being difficult. She gave me a time limit and I'm following it! She's trying to control every aspect, and why shouldn't she? It's her wedding, I totally agree! But she is putting friendships on the line for no reason. We have been friends for year's Dh and our friend, he of all people should know that I will come through...we have never done anything to make them think any less. We are all adults..she should be worrying about the small details, honestly.