Re: proof-reading invitations and doing the "head-smack" movement:
A friend of mine was getting married. We meet up regularly, along with another friend, for coffee and donuts and chat. She was *very* excited about her wedding invitations having arrived from the printer that morning, so she brought our invitations with her.
They were beautiful. Triple fold, tissue insert, ribbon on the outside. Absolutely divine.
There was, however, one small problem. The invitations didn't have the date of the wedding on.
Friend did "the movement" and then breathed a sigh of relief that she hadn't posted them out yet.