My DD (17) had a friend die on Wednesday in a bad way. We are both reeling from the loss of this sweet wonderful young man. My DD and I will be going to the memorial tomorrow and I did mention to her that it will probably be a closed casket. I asked if she knew how or any other information and she said no, because, while she is talking to his sister, she doesn't want to talk details. My DD did tell me today that she is meeting with another friend who is claiming to have been with this boy and found his body and how upset he is, and how he is going to tell them all how he did it. The issue...I know. In a very bizarre twist of fate, his body was found on the property of the company someone we are very close to. She actually told me on her way to work that day that she had to rush in because they found a body (she had to be there for this). A few hours later my DD told me that her friend had sent her a cryptic text the night before then was no longer responding. About 4 pm, DD got the call confirming her worst fears, and at 7 pm, while talking with other person we put 2 and 2 together and realized the body they found was my DD's friend. Other person and I decided to NOT say a word to DD unless she brought it up to us, but now, with rumors flying and people trying to get attention from this (really?? who does this???) should we sit her down and tell her what we know or should we just wait until she inevitably finds out the truth, thus possibly having her get mad because we didn't tell her what we knew.